Ten Ways to Lose a Naija Babe!

Will you date a guy who asks you to split the bill on a first date?yes Yes No Maybe View Results Polldaddy.com So I started out this article about the ten ways to lose a Naija babe in one date. Last time was about mentioning the whole cooking thing. Of course, I understand that one man's or in this case one woman's meat is another's poison so it's just fine if you are just thrilled by a guy who does the things I think are annoying. Today, I'll talk about two ways so we can move this along. The rest will come in due time. Our first way: ask her to split the bill. ahahahaa. There is pretty NO and I repeat NO naija babe I've ever met who thinks this is ok. It's just not in our DNA. There's no such thing. When we become all civilized in western culture, we expect equal treatment in every way from men, but not from a man we are dating. No matter what you read in other western articles, this just does not apply with Nigerian ladies. If you take a Naija babe out, get the bill. In fact, insist on paying even she asks to split the bill. If she insists on paying, you can assume (usually accurately) that she has no plan to see you again. The ONLY time I insist on paying is when I'm done and I don't want to feel like I took something from the guy when I had no plan to date him. (Some girls feel differently and will continue to take from a guy they have no intention to date……To each his own). Here's another way to lose a Naija babe: Ask her to marry you on the first date, then get upset when she'd like some time to think about it. Ok, this one is a major pet peeve. I'm sure if you're this really cool gift to heaven and earth kind of guy, I'll be really honored by your proposal even though it's probably ill-timed – coming on the first date and all. HOWEVER, it might actually help if I have a chance to at least get to know you. The most annoying variation of this or more like laughable has to be the guy who looked at me with shock when I mentioned that I'd like some time to think about his first date proposal. Like seriously dude, you really should not be asking a girl you just met to marry you -with the exception of course of someone like me who just oozes the "God's gift to man signal." But all jokes aside, even if you crazily decide to ask her, surely you can't get upset when she'd like some time to think about it.